While skyping with Ryan tonight he told Levi “two more sleeps” until he comes home. I corrected him saying it was actually three sleeps since Levi will be in bed hours before Ryan flies in at 10:40pm on Sunday night.
Ryan then suggested that he might just wake Levi up to say hello when he gets in.
Immediately I chided, “oh no you won’t! I haven’t slept in two weeks!” (Camping being the week before. And truthfully, I haven’t really slept in six weeks. Or six months. But whatever, not the point.)
It didn’t occur to me until after I hung up that my response was incredibly selfish.
We’re now finishing day six of being on our own and I’m swinging between feeling like supermom and feeling very “alone” and a little sorry for myself. (My response was driven from that second extreme, obviously.)
In many ways it’s not been an easy week at all. (No need for me to launch into details here. You can imagine.)
But in many ways it’s been fun. For the most part, I’ve made the most of it and put in a little effort to do some special things with the boys as I’ve drastically toned down my to-do lists.
Of course, it’s also been tiring. (Very.)
And sleep (the lack and longing of it) often occupies my mind these days.
So that’s why I immediately thoguht of myself when Ryan suggested waking Levi up for a late-night ‘hello’ upon his arrival.
Selfish? Yeah. Completely.
Ryan’s also been separated from us for six days and misses us like crazy.
I’ll be up anyway (picking him up from the airport) so what’s it to me if he wakes up Levi? Seriously Adriel, sometimes you’re just selfish for no other reason than you’re vision is short-sighted. Like navel-gazing short-sided.
Even if Ryan doesn’t “want” to wake Levi when he gets home on Sunday night… I will make sure it happens. For his sake mostly, and for Levi’s. (Levi is easy to get resettled these days anyway.) But also for mine.
Selfishness, make haste. You are SO unattractive.
Q for you: When is the last time you said something without thinking it through and then later realized you were being completely selfish?
p.s. Went over time today. Again.
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